The ones reaching first win. Bullshit.
The one who enjoys the race does. No one wins when he or she are not liking what he or she does. Most of us want to know how to do enjoy the way, the path. The main problem in the equation is we are still waiting for someone to come and give us the three magic bullet points that will change our lives, how we perceive our job or how being happier.
Hey, stop that!. Wake up!. No one is going to make that for me, you or anybody.
You can attend to courses, seminars, reading about motivation, tools, tips, bits and pieces. However there is just a very single recipe do it.
Footsteps, waves and answers
Go out there and have a sincere walk. The nature and your footsteps will bring the answers.
If you don't like the people you hang out with, go and search for new people or spend more time alone.
If you don't like the way you sell. Reinvent yourself, learn, change your intro and your final. Find your main purpose to sell. You don't need to sell just for being paid. You need first to understand why you like selling (or doing whatever you are doing at your job). You need to do it because you like it and there is a purpose for you liking it.
If you don't like the way your relationship is going. Talk about it. Put some measures and solutions. Have the guts to be alone and choose finding someone else or nobody else.
If you are tired of being yourself find yourself a new reason to be you. But don't blame others. It's just your fault. You are full of potential and endless possibilities, not excuses by nature. You just need to start creating your new reality from the scratch.
If you are happy enough as you are and don't want to evolve its fine but then don't call crazy or discourage unique people who have the guts to follow their dreams. Don't dare to discourage the ones who had the guts to do what you did not (yet).
If you want to live in a better world start making a better yourself first.
If you want to be loved love first without expecting anything in return. If you want to do things stop talking and start doing. Life is for people who want to live not for dead heartless walkers and chit chat talkers. If don't like yourself don't talk about others.
Stay humble, keep walking and find the answers (and actions),
Ignacio Gallo Campos
Special mention to Lisa Brochey, New York Area for the inspiration and featured picture property of Lisa Brochey - "Footsteps, waves and answers"
About the author
Ignacio has just published the third book of the trilogy called, “A life in a second”. Click on the titles and make them yours via Amazon.
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