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The obstacle is the way

This is not only the title of a great book full of insights by Ryan Holyday, but also one of hottest topic studied since the beginning of the human era. It’s a gift is well inner-integrated. The obstacle is there to teach us something or many things. However, the obstacle is not going to take the form of a meaningful learning point unless we let the most painful part of it telling us what it means. And for that to happen, we need to let the ghosts of the past visit us today.

We don't have more time

Than the time we already have and had. No one is ensuring us, me or anyone we are making it to the next day. There is no past, nor future. Those concepts both live in our minds. For sure they are not what is happening now, which is the essence of who we are. We are not our past, what we accomplished, our title, our job, our role, neither our future. We are just the one thing we have done and how we have done it at the very last second. This is who we are, our last second, our

The ones reaching first win. Bullshit.

The one who enjoys the race does. No one wins when he or she are not liking what he or she does. Most of us want to know how to do enjoy the way, the path. The main problem in the equation is we are still waiting for someone to come and give us the three magic bullet points that will change our lives, how we perceive our job or how being happier. Hey, stop that!. Wake up!. No one is going to make that for me, you or anybody. You can attend to courses, seminars, reading about

What would you die or live for?

Re-writing what it became a viral article in LinkedIn, thanks to being viewed 10.000 times, liked by 109 "influencers" and shared 56 times. Among those was Dr. Marshall Goldsmith recognized #1 Leadership Thinker in the World and the top 5 Management Thinker in 2016. And there it goes, let's recall it... ...This is not about your love, your mum, dad, friend, son or daughter. That’s easy to feel and think about. This is about you, what is that something inside you that burns w

How can this be happening?

The Champions League, Roland Garros, Brexit, Elections and new attacks, what is really happening here? Is this a dream, is this a nightmare, or a trick? Someone hit pause please! In these crazy times it’s really easy to lose track of the bigger picture, to get demotivated by seeing, listening and receiving so many chaotic messages which for sure are hurting our emotions. Everything appears so much out of our control and will. The question is however, in spite of all these cha

Live and die on this day

For those of you who have not yet watched it, it deserves your time to watch the grey, to grasp the essence of the magical, beautiful, sad and happy message the movie is sending us 360 manner. Be ready to loose, be ready to win, be ready to learn, be ready to grow, be ready to feel compassion, pain, love, hate, regret, all at the same time, all on the same day, all in a second. A second to move it all, to change it all, to make it happen, to begin and end, to destroy and crea

Connect to the "No limits Wi-fi"

Josh Waitzkin author of the book "The art of learning" and several times world champion in martial arts and chess, speaks loudly about it. Most humans tend to judge, cross reference and act taking into account every single second, emotion and experience we have come across in our most recent and not so recent past. Why is that?. Purely surviving reasons behind. This is what made us reach to the point in history and evolution we are in, today. However even though we count on s

Win-Win is over. Period

Win-to-many is here. We have been told many times we need to find situations for two parties to win something, being beneficial for the two of them. We can find this Theory in many theoretical negotiation lessons and books. Being a win-win a balanced, winning and fair situation in the outcome obtained for two people or parts involved in that situation. However, why would we kowtow to limit ourselves to just one counterpart when we can go far beyond with those limits? Limits a

Dream what you want. Be what you dream

Walking the talk is the one and only way. It works. Dreams, desires, goals and aims are just propaganda, if not accompanied by real and truthful actions. Everything else is just metaphysical ending in the nothing. Be true to yourself. Stop the hidden agendas, uncover the ones who have them. They just work for the short term. Open your mind to ideas and actions, regardless who is sharing them. Stop judging and start observing and question yourself as children do. Limit yoursel

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