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Courage - Loving to fail repeatedly, and keep trying over and over again

Who would in their own sanity be happy to fail over and over again? The ones who know they have nothing to lose and a lot to win. Probably the only ones who decide genuinely to stay true to their values over the average. The ones who are awake enough to meet the real opportunity life means. The ones who know what means to overcome daily basis the today’s stigma – “you can’t fail” The ones who really understand failure as a natural way of experience and learn from anyone or an

Why we should help others more (even those we call strangers)

Firstly because there are so many proofs and studies done in the last 100 years confirming what many philosophers were already knowing. It does make 99% of human beings happier and more complete in their lives. Researchers from Oxford University concluded that being kind to others causes a small but significant improvement in subjective well-being. The review found that the effect is lower than some pop-psychology articles have claimed, but also concluded that future research

Why you shouldn’t believe in luck

First of all, because as any psychologist will tell you, it’s a limiting belief, which will play a non-desired role in your life, taking you to make decisions in an arbitrary way, rather than stepping into your own path (although as you might know there is no path, it’s just here and now). Secondly, because it will remove ownership to your actions, or as we usually do, we will take it just when the outcome is good or positive, removing ourselves from the equation when the har

4818 days to save the world

Or said in another words, 19.272 days is the average time of any regular human being in his or her life, assuming that person would live 80 years of age in any given developed country with no major health issues. Not much, isn’t it? This figure results of multiplying 365 days * 80 years, resting the 33% of sleeping time we daily spend. And if to all those little days of life we have, we remove the impact of fear into the equation, the time we have for living is diminishing to

How to develop a brand-new state of mind

Everyone wants to be the principal character in that movie called life, but how many of us do feel it that way? How many of us do make it happen? We have the power to do it and to change shadows into light all the way down. Remember to connect to the no limits Wi-Fi, first and that you have all the power to do it by owning your second, then deciding it’s going to be positive instead of negative. The truth is if we were truly honest with ourselves, we would recognize we are th

Connect to the "No limits Wi-fi"

Josh Waitzkin author of the book "The art of learning" and several times world champion in martial arts and chess, speaks loudly about it. Most humans tend to judge, cross reference and act taking into account every single second, emotion and experience we have come across in our most recent and not so recent past. Why is that?. Purely surviving reasons behind. This is what made us reach to the point in history and evolution we are in, today. However even though we count on s

Win-Win is over. Period

Win-to-many is here. We have been told many times we need to find situations for two parties to win something, being beneficial for the two of them. We can find this Theory in many theoretical negotiation lessons and books. Being a win-win a balanced, winning and fair situation in the outcome obtained for two people or parts involved in that situation. However, why would we kowtow to limit ourselves to just one counterpart when we can go far beyond with those limits? Limits a

Dream what you want. Be what you dream

Walking the talk is the one and only way. It works. Dreams, desires, goals and aims are just propaganda, if not accompanied by real and truthful actions. Everything else is just metaphysical ending in the nothing. Be true to yourself. Stop the hidden agendas, uncover the ones who have them. They just work for the short term. Open your mind to ideas and actions, regardless who is sharing them. Stop judging and start observing and question yourself as children do. Limit yoursel

Comfort kills, it really does. A tribute to Ibn Ali Miller (March 2017)

Tomorrow is Monday and we may feel bad about it, being our own time!. Sounds crazy, right? Sounds ironic, no? If the answer to these questions is yes, keep reading because you, me and everybody out there could be dying right now. What if we stopped for a second and truthfully assume that might be we buying things, thoughts and values we don’t want and need to please people we don’t like. Who’s to blame there?. Just you, me, him or her, the ones who are letting this happen. I

Why loving our pain

This is the eternal paradox. Recent studies carried out in hundreds of hospitals around the world are revealing 80% of terminal people when asked, what's your number one regret in your life?, they come to a very simple and powerful response; "I did live the life of many others, but mine" and "I was not truthful to myself". At the same time, most of those people when asked if would have had the same friends, jobs or relationships (the what) they replied YES. However, again wha

Being the second, being successful

As Benjamin P. Hardy describes in his masterpiece “Slipstream Time Hacking ” success is not about getting our goals in life. Success is all about how we make those goals happen, and how much we do really enjoy each second we invest in getting those goals happening. Ignacio G. Campos describes success as a second, not referring a second as a momentum being a position in any competition. He describes it as how we live every infinitesimal portion of time we have the luck to live

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